We want to know every detail, every story, even the insignificant ones.
If a guy asks you a lot of questions about yourself and your life and shows a genuine interest in who you are and what you like, he is investing in you.
If he doesn’t, then he may just see you as a friend, or maybe he’s interested in hooking up with you but he’s not interested in dating you.
If a guy likes you, he will usually ask you out and make an effort to When we like someone, we can’t get enough.
Or maybe he’ll be even flirty than his baseline level of flirtiness.
Personal Confession: Way back in my single days I met a guy who seemed perfect for me in every way.
When he wants to get your attention, he’ll think of something, even if he just makes it up.
If he doesn’t demonstrate any interest in talking to you–he doesn’t initiate or maybe he cuts the conversation short and makes an exit–then it’s a clear sign he probably doesn’t like you in that way. If a guy likes you, he will take it beyond that and actually ask you out.
Other body language cues to look out for is if he leans in when talking to you, points his feet towards you, and maintains eye contact.
He might seem a bit nervous and fidgety, or maybe he tones down his usual “macho” attitude.
You may notice he seems a little flustered or maybe even blushes a bit when you talk to him.
Another strong tell is if he finds ways to touch you.
It could be “accidental” like brushing against your arm, seemingly innocent like a high-five that lingers a little longer that it usually would, or intentional like putting his hand on your when you’re telling a story.