The scammer may pretend to be an attractive, potential partner and strike up an online relationship with you.It may take some time and seem extremely believable.
Thinking through what ‘sex’ means can help you identify what you do/don’t want to experience. It could mean masturbation alone or with a partner. It could involve exploring fantasy/role play, fetish, BDSM, phone or text sex with someone else, writing a diary or blog, or filming/photographing yourself (which you may want to keep private or share).The resources listed above can help with this and reduce misunderstandings over what you want or who you will be intimate with.Not every encounter has to end in sex and all involved can change their mind at any time.I’m 23 and have just ended a six month relationship. I’ve just been promoted at work to a post where there’s a lot of travel.All of this has made me realise I do want a physical relationship but with no strings. In order to help you think about what possibilities are open to you I’ve listed a number of questions for you to reflect on.