First, you need to accept the possibility that you will never get him back.
When I wrote this guide, my intention is to help you get your ex back permanently, without playing mind games or using manipulation tactics.
What you need to understand is that every relationship is unique.
Sometimes, it is a good idea to implement no contact if you think you need the time to heal or maybe both of you are too angry to talk to each other at the moment.
Tell him that you will get back to him once you feel better. So you have the chance to use no contact to heal without pushing him away. There is no place for dirty psychological tricks in a healthy relationship.
As long as you are tactful in your approach, you don’t have to worry about pushing him away. First, it doesn’t make you look needy or desperate. Sure, those tricks may work in the short run, mostly on people who are insecure, but they are not going to work in the long run.
Just tell your ex that you are very happy to hear from him and you really love to talk to him again in the future.
No contact should not be a way to get your ex back. This is not always true, especially if you handle the situation wrongly.
I know you really want to get your ex back fast and right now.
However, there are no magic pills when it comes to saving a relationship.
However, there are times when no contact is a bad idea.
There are many people who have lost their relationship for good because they follow the no contact rule to the letter.