A considerate “no” is preferable to a thumb-twiddling non-response that leaves the other person feeling they must have done something wrong.
Do: meet up in person ASAPA potential pitfall of dating online is that people can get lulled into a passive email exchange that lasts for months rather than actually pursuing a date.
The danger of this is that you can become emotionally invested in a potential match, only to discover that when you meet in person, the spark isn’t there. Once a connection is clear, it’s time to take your online dating into reality, even if you have to initiate things.
To ease anxiety about a first face-to-face date, keep things simple. That way, if things go well, you can look forward to your second date.
For these guys to think they are above reply to another human being who has shown interest in them reflects a lack of humility.
They can’t take the time to say “No thanks but thanks for reaching out”?
Expect the same in return from anyone you meet when dating online. Call the person out on it, report his or her behaviour if it’s detrimental to anyone else, and move on quickly.
Don’t: lead someone on If you’re not keen, make it tactfully clear as soon as possible. If someone contacts you and you’re not interested, be respectful enough to send a short and thoughtful rejection.
Don’t: endanger your safety Your safety should be your top priority when it comes to dating, especially online dating.To not respond to an inquiry or the fact someone showed interest in you is very selfish.If you put yourself out there to encourage contacts, you should at the very least offer the common courtesy of a response.Makes you wonder what else they don’t feel is important in their interpersonal relationships. You choose to be insulted when this is not about you.I get that is a difficult e-mail to send but if you are on sites that encourage contacts that is part of the deal. It’s about them not having the basic decency to reply.